Tuesday, January 27, 2009

A Person's a Person, No Matter How Small



Judah and I attended our first pro-life rally together on Sunday. Bundled up and shivering in our hats and gloves and coats, we heard from several pro-life leaders from all over the country. My favorite speaker was the least charismatic. He read his speech directly from his notecards. He often lost his place. He was so shy and nervous that he apologized several times for his poor performance. He had me in tears.

Michael Clancy reminded us more than once that he is a photographer, not a speaker. He likes to be behind the scenes, not in front of a crowd. He shared his experience taking the famous photograph of "The Hand that Touched the World." I didn't realize the photograph was taken at Vanderbilt, just a few miles from my house. I also didn't realize that this photograph was the "earliest human reaction ever recorded." The baby was 21 weeks along when he underwent a successful surgery to treat spina bifida. (Remember Baby David, who was born at 26 weeks? He is now a year old, healthy, happy, and home. For the story and picture of a baby who was born in Miami at 21 weeks and 6 days, a world record, click HERE and HERE.)

Samuel's parents, Alex and Julie Armas of Villa Rica, Georgia, testified September 25 [2003] before the U.S. Senate Subcommittee on Science, Technology, and Space about the photo and their experience with in utero surgery. They were joined at the hearing by Dr. James Thorp, a maternal-fetal medicine specialist at the University of Florida Pensacola, and by Michael Clancy, the photographer who captured Samuel's awe-inspiring grasp.

Dr. Thorp testified that in utero surgery, while still in the experimental stages and posing significant risks, offers incredible promise to parents of unborn children with birth defects. Alex and Julie explained that their surgery, initiated to treat spina bifida, remarkably changed the course of Samuel's life and of their own lives.

Alex testified, "Today, Samuel is nearly four years old and has not had to endure the surgeries that are common for most children with spina bifida. He's walking with leg braces, is cognitively normal, and loves looking for bugs."

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Spina bifida, a sometimes fatal and typically severe brain and spinal cord anomaly, results from the spine failing to close properly during the first month of pregnancy. If the baby survives, spina bifida often leaves debilitating defects including accumulation of fluid in the brain (hydrocephalus), and a host of devastating secondary conditions.

Julie, an obstetrics nurse, decided after hearing the diagnosis to research treatments and discovered a pioneering program of maternal-fetal (in utero) surgery for spina bifida at Nashville's Vanderbilt University Medical Center. After intensive consultations with the medical staff, Julie and Alex not only gave the go-ahead for sur-gery on 21-week-old Samuel; they also agreed to let USA Today photograph the event as a way to increase awareness of the new procedure.

USA Today assigned photojournalist Michael Clancy to capture the surgery on film. Michael had no idea that the shoot would change his life forever.

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As Sen. Brownback observed during the hearing, "There is little debate about whether the child in utero is alive; the debate is over whether or not the child is a life worthy of protection."

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If it would be illegal to kill Samuel any day after he was born, why is it "legal" to kill Samuel any day before he is born?

http://freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1012548/posts

Michael Clancy set up a website featuring the picture and the story and offers the reproduction of the picture for free, encouraging crisis pregnancy centers around the world to use the photo in their counseling. You can print the story and picture from this pdf: http://www.michaelclancy.com/Samuel%27s%20Story.pdf.

Some of his testimony, which he shared at the rally, can be found HERE.

While I am thrilled that the country I live in now has a commander in chief who is a man of color, a man who, just 45 years ago, would have experienced overt discrimination in the South and covert discrimination in the North, is now the leader of our country, I am also deeply burdened for our nation and the course that we are taking.

Out of "respect" for pro-life protestors who marched on Washington on the anniversary of Roe v. Wade, President Obama waited 24 hours before signing a bill that will support abortion providers worldwide.

President Obama said, "I look forward to working with Congress to restore U.S. financial support for the U.N. Population Fund. By resuming funding to UNFPA, the U.S. will be joining 180 other donor nations working collaboratively to reduce poverty, improve the health of women and children, prevent HIV/AIDS and provide family planning assistance to women in 154 countries,” said President Obama.

"UNFPA Executive Director, Thoraya Ahmed Obaid welcomes President Obama's decision to restore funding and noted how quickly he addressed the issue." She notes:

"Congressionally-approved funding for UNFPA has been withheld by the U.S. Administration for the past seven years. During that time, the Fund has not received a total of $244 million in U.S. funding. Restoration of funding will allow us to maintain recent gains during the current financial crisis and provide support to women in some of the poorest countries in the world," said Ms. Obaid.

"The current financial crisis." Oh, yeah. We're supposed to be working toward a stronger economy, right? So . . . maybe spending should be pretty strictly curbed and monitored. Does a nation facing an economic crisis need to spend countless millions on supporting abortion efforts in other countries? Does this sound completely irresponsible from a financial standpoint to anyone else? President Bush stopped $244 million from going out to fund "Voluntary Population Planning" projects. However, one of the first things President Obama does once in office is to open the flood-gates for millions in taxpayer dollars to benefit--not our own economic crisis--but the "Voluntary Population Planning" efforts of the International Planned Parenthood Federation.

What are some of the results of so-called population planning? Well, in China, where "more Chinese women would like to have more than one child," the enforcement of their one-child policy "has involved forced abortions and other abuses. It has also been blamed for a gender imbalance, as a traditional preference for boys has persuaded some parents to abort girl foetuses."

We are face to face today with a governing body that not only turns a blind eye, but also provides the tree and the rope--in a "safe," "clinical," "legal" setting.

We are at war with an international organization that is systematically targeting country after country in the name of "women's rights" but their hidden agenda is death. For example:
Increasingly the pro-aborts' attention has turned to Central and South America, and specifically Mexico. In 2006, the Center for Reproductive Rights won a lawsuit before the Inter-American Commission on Human Rights, in which the Mexican government agreed to guarantee access to abortion in the case of rape. During the course of the lawsuit, the pro-abortion group Human Rights Watch recommended punishing doctors by revoking their licenses if they refuse to perform abortions on moral grounds. (boldface mine)

But this victory for the pro-choice movement was not enough. It was not enough to require access to abortion for rape victims. No, these pro-choice militants have only one thing in mind: unrestricted access to abortion as a "fundamental human right."

http://www.aul.org/Mexico_Example

Sound familiar? If you've read anything surrounding the so-called Freedom of Choice Act, these phrases should send chills down your spine. Take a few minutes to find out what's going on in other countries with regard to abortion and population control and tell me that we're not at war.

Mexico City now offers "abortion on demand" during the first trimester. This is especially significant because "the new law violates the Mexican Constitution, which states that human life must be defended 'from conception until its natural end.' . . . The law has also paved the way for the legalization of euthanasia, an effort already underway in Mexico.

In the year since the law's passage, 6,400 abortions have been performed. Twenty-two women have been injured, and eight women have died from complications related to their abortions. While the law contains a clause that girls under the age of 18 must obtain parental consent before abortion, at least one of the fatalities was a minor. Thus, an effort that was claimed to "help" women is in actuality killing women as well as their unborn children.
http://www.aul.org/Mexico_Example


Abortion is not simply a "choice." It is more than a choice. It is the most common surgical procedure in the United States. It comes in many forms, some more dangerous than others. Partial-birth abortion, for example, was banned in 2003, but it would become legal if FOCA is passed. According to the ban, partial birth abortion "poses serious risks to the long-term health of women and in some circumstances, their lives . . . [it] could ultimately result in maternal death."

Planned Parenthood would have you believe that abortion is safe, but that giving birth is dangerous. They will tell you how many women die every year giving birth (to make the number sound high), but what they don't tell you is that they're providing you with a worldwide figure and over 90% of women who die during childbirth are from underdeveloped countries.

Planned Parenthood will not, however, tell you how many women die each year during abortions . . . or how many take their lives after undergoing an abortion . . . or how many women give birth prematurely and experience the grief of losing a child they actually want after having an abortion. No, they will instead warn you about Crisis Pregnancy Centers. They will say that what is inside of you is simply a blob of tissue. They won't tell you that the abortionist actually has to piece together all the body parts afterward to be sure he didn't leave any inside your uterus. No, they won't mention any of those things. There's no money in full disclosure.

Combine declining morality with a powerful, well-funded international federation of busy, intentional, passionate advocates and what do you get? I'll give you a hint. It's not constitutional.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Two Open Letters

An open letter from me to Congressman Steve Cohen of TN, co-sponsor of FOCA, the "Freedom of Choice Act."

Dear Congressman Steve Cohen,

You are already aware, I'm sure, that the 2003 congressional ban against partial birth abortion was intended to "draw a bright line that clearly distinguishes abortion and infanticide."

Did you also know that it says that partial birth abortion "poses serious risks to the long-term health of women and in some circumstances, their lives"?

It also states that "by choosing not to prohibit it will further coarsen society to the humanity of not only newborns, but all vulnerable and innocent human life, making it increasingly difficult to protect such life."

The "Freedom of Choice Act" seeks to overturn this ban. Whose freedoms, may I ask, does this act seek to protect?

After reading through the ban Congress passed in January 2003 on partial birth abortion, which President Obama promises to overturn with the "Freedom of Choice Act," I felt compelled to contact you.

I implore you to vote against the "Freedom of Choice Act."

This act, which would overturn the 2003 ban on partial-birth abortion, would allow for a "gruesome and inhumane procedure that is never medically necessary and should be prohibited."

Partial birth abortion "poses serious risks to the long-term health of women and in some circumstances, their lives."

Please take a moment to review [DOCID: f:publ105.108]:
http://frwebgate.access.gpo.gov/cgi-bin/getdoc.cgi?dbname=108_cong_public_laws&docid=f:publ105.108

If "partial-birth abortion poses serious risks to the health of a woman undergoing the procedure . . . and could ultimately result in maternal death," then why would any lawmaker in America seek to overturn the ban and make partial birth abortion legal?

"In addition to promoting maternal health, such a prohibition will draw a bright line that clearly distinguishes abortion and infanticide, that preserves the integrity of the medical profession, and promotes respect for human life."

These words were documented in November 2003, but they are just as powerful and relevant for January 2009.

I implore you, as a representative of Tennessee, to do whatever is in your power to protect both the partially-born child and the mother, whose life is also at stake.

You and I both know that "The vast majority of babies killed during partial-birth abortions are alive until the end of the procedure. It is a medical fact, however, that unborn infants at this stage can feel pain when subjected to painful stimuli and that their perception of this pain is even more intense than that of newborn infants and older children when subjected to the same stimuli. Thus, during a partial-birth abortion procedure, the child will fully experience the pain associated with piercing his or her skull and sucking out his or her brain."

"Implicitly approving such a brutal and inhumane procedure by choosing not to prohibit it will further coarsen society to the humanity of not only newborns, but all vulnerable and innocent human life, making it increasingly difficult to protect such life. Thus, Congress has a compelling interest in acting--indeed it must act--to prohibit this inhumane procedure."

Again, Congressman Steve Cohen, I implore you to read the ban once more, which states, "For these reasons, Congress finds that partial-birth abortion is never medically indicated to preserve the health of the mother; is in fact unrecognized as a valid abortion procedure by the mainstream medical community; poses additional health risks to the mother; blurs the line between abortion and infanticide in the killing of a partially-born child just inches from birth; and confuses the role of the physician in childbirth and should, therefore, be banned."

As you review [DOCID: f:publ105.108], please consider voting AGAINST FOCA.

Thank you.

Lori Todd
Nashville, TN

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What follows is an open letter from Charmaine Yoest, Ph.D., the President and CEO of Americans United for Life (AUL) Action:

An Open Letter to President-Elect Obama on Behalf of All Ohio Parents

Dear President-Elect Obama,

A 14-year-old girl walked into a Planned Parenthood clinic in Cincinnati, accompanied by her soccer coach, John Haller. He was 21 years old and had initiated sexual activity with the girl when she was 13. Now that she was pregnant, Haller wanted her to have an abortion.

Rather than calling the parents as required under Ohio law, Planned Parenthood called the soccer coach’s cell phone and failed to verify he was the parent.

Planned Parenthood turned a blind eye . . . and performed the abortion. Afterward, they provided the girl with a bag of condoms and a Depo-Provera shot.

Thirty-six states across the country require some form of parental notification or consent prior to an abortion involving a minor child. And these laws are supported by 80% of the American people. In addition to the obvious reason that parents need to be involved when their child undergoes a medical procedure, these laws also protect young girls from sexual abuse. Research shows high percentages of teen pregnancies are fathered by adult men and a relationship between early teen sex and coercion.

President-Elect Obama, why do you oppose these parental involvement laws that protect our children from sexual abuse?

Despite Planned Parenthood’s actions, the parents of the Cincinnati teenager found out about her abortion and the sexual abuse perpetrated by her soccer coach. Eventually John Haller was convicted of seven counts of sexual battery and served three years in prison.

President-Elect Obama, the mainstream media refuses to ask you these questions, so we will:
Why have you promised Planned Parenthood that the first piece of legislation you will sign is the Freedom of Choice Act, a piece of abortion legislation which would eliminate ALL of the common-sense parental involvement laws across the country?

Sincerely,

Charmaine Yoest, Ph.D.
President and CEO, AUL Action

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Looking for a simple way to take action? Join me in signing the "Fight FOCA" petition here: http://www.fightfoca.com/. Then, share this link with your friends and family!

One person represents one thousand others who feel the same way. Make your voice heard!




Thursday, January 8, 2009

FOURTH FOLDER, FOURTH PHOTO


Words Fitly Spoken blogger, my friend Christy, tagged me in a blog game. Here are the rules: Look into the fourth folder in which you store pictures on your computer, and select the fourth picture therein. Post it. Explain it.

Here goes. . .

My fourth folder contained only four pictures. All four were of Judah sitting on the floor in the upstairs hallway with his blocks and his books. Daddy had come along to help him create a message for Mommy. Digital camera in hand, Daddy brings me the photo to let me know that Judah wants me to read to him. Surprise, surprise. Everyone who reads to him can't believe that he will sit there as long as you're reading. It doesn't matter if you pick up Dr. Seuss or Narnia or the Scriptures. I actually read to him from my Bible this week--not his Child's Story Bible--but my four-translations-in-one Bible, and he sat and listened and asked thoughtful questions. I think we underestimate our kids. I know I do.

Thanks, Christy, for taking me back to this time last year!

Friday, January 2, 2009

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Getting there . . . slowly.



With the children tucked in, prayed for, and told "I love you," I head downstairs to write. Instead, I end up reading, trying to catch up on friends' blogs, finding out the latest news on Facebook (terribly addictive social networking site that feels like reading magazines about your friends), and checking e-mail.

Always waiting for the perfect opportunity to jot down a few thoughts, I find myself reading more than writing these days. It's easier to sneak in a few pages of a book than it is to open my computer and write coherent phrases. My kids are FULL of life and energy and ideas and fun. I'm trying to "realize life" as I live it--to be "in the moment" as much as possible--to fully absorb these fleeting moments I have with my growing children.

I glance up and see a picture of Miriam when she was four months old. So tiny. So soft. So precious. She's full of wonder and delight and personality and opinions now. I'm going to try to upload a video of her tonight . . .

after I add a couple pictures of the kids to this post (at the request of my dear friend Joan who loves visuals and who recently started blogging--YAY!) The pictures I chose are from Christmas Eve and Christmas Day with Grandaddy (James' dad) and Papa (my dad). I love watching my children interact with their grandparents and the grandparents get such a kick out of their grandchildren!

My grandmom asked me what I got for Christmas this year. I could have responded with the material gifts, but what came to mind were two experiences that were greater gifts to me than anything else I received.

The first experience happened on Christmas Eve when the kids opened their gifts from Auntie Lisa in Minnesota. When I read her card, I got all teary-eyed. Lisa and Nate, whose only child is a sweet little puppy, donated two boxes of toys to Operation Christmas Child on behalf of Judah and Miriam. I couldn't believe it. My friend Lisa, whom I've known longer than I've been married . . . 12 years? 13 years? Donated toys to children who may not own a single toy. She gave each of my children a little something (that they LOVED), but she gave even more to children who might not receive anything all year--on behalf of my children. What an amazing gift.

The second experience happened on Christmas Day. Last year's Christmas with the Todd family was awkward and uncomfortable. This year was, perhaps, the best Christmas we've ever spent together. Not only was everyone kind to each other, but we also received a gift from James' brother Ben that I will never forget. Ben said that he wanted to be especially generous this year, but he looked at the toys that his children own (that go on for days) and said that if he had it to over again, he would do it differently. He appreciated that we didn't go overboard for Christmas (we bought Judah one toy--a $6 bow and arrow that probably could have waited until his birthday given all the toys he received from everyone else--and didn't buy anything for Miriam) and that we aren't focused on material things. He gave James an envelope with some money in it and told him to do what he wanted with it. We set it aside to seek God about how He would have us use it. For the first time in our marriage, I felt heard and understood by someone on James' side of the family. For years I've felt like an oddball. Weird. Abnormal. Peculiar. Misunderstood. And for the first time, I felt embraced. Loved. Accepted. Understood. Honored.

This Christmas was significant in many ways, but what made it particularly meaningful for me was having two people in our lives who blessed us in immaterial ways, speaking to the deepest parts of our hearts.

What a glorious way to begin a new year.